Chinese National Holiday

7 Oct

祝你国庆节快乐! I wish you a happy National Day!

So, October 1st was the Chinese National Day… which, in turn, meant I had a 7-day vacation! Woohoo. You can’t even begin to understand how much I needed this. While I love my high school, my classmates, and learning Chinese, there’s only so much studying I can handle… and I had met my quota.

Well – you must be wondering what happened over the holiday. Let’s begin!

First off, we took a trip to my grandparents countryside home. Of course my brother didn’t want to go for very long (because there’s no wifi), so we only ended-up spending one night there. But, let me tell you… my grandparents are loaded with cash. Basically their home is a castle built in the middle of the countryside. It has a gate, 9 bedrooms, flatscreen televisions… literally every luxury any person could ever want except for Wifi. 

The day was nice – we took a walk to see the rice fields, ate lunch and dinner with relatives I had never heard of (they spent approximately $400 on each meal), and took a wonderful nap after lunch. It was a really nice retreat. But, that night, I wanted to explore more. I wanted to see the countryside and I felt like I was trapped inside the gates. While my host brother continued to play games on his iPad, my host grandfather said he wanted to go for a walk. I sprung up instantly! “Me, Me, Me,” I shouted. Little did I know that this wasn’t an ordinary walk. We went outside the front door, still inside the house gates, and my host grandfather turned on some loud Chinese opera. Then he walked, in a circle, once then twice then three times. And he told me to follow him. Yep, that’s what we did folks… walked inside the gate… in circles… for two hours. It was definitely an adventure, to say the least.

Okay – next realization. It may be a tangent, but it’s a quick cultural note. In China, if you don’t know someone’s name, but want to be respectful, you should refer to them as “aunt” and “uncle” or for a boy/girl “older sister or brother”. It’s actually a really nice concept, but it definitely gets confusing when you call someone who is not really your relative “aunt” or “uncle”. Well, I’d been calling the man who drove my grandfather’s car my “uncle” for over a month, and I just found out yesterday that he’s just my host grandfather’s driver. Nothing more. Not related. Not friends. He’s just a driver, and I’ve been treating him like my uncle for over a month! I even gave him one of my “host family” gifts because I assumed he was a relative. Opps. Atleast I hope he thinks I’m really generous now.

Now to talk about my host brother and my concerns for a moment. My host brother only plays video games and studies. And, while I completely understand he needs to study, he therefore has no time to talk to me. And even when we’re in the car together, walking to school, or eating dinner… he’s always on his iPad. I want to form a relationship with him, be his friend, talk to him, but it’s really difficult when he doesn’t give me a chance. It’s not that I think he dislikes me, rather I think he’s just being a typical 15 year old boy… addicted to video games. This segments into my concern: how do I balance being at home and going out? Currently, at home… I do nothing but study and watch Netflix. I have nothing else to do… my host grandmother can’t speak English (and we’ve about exhausted every possible conversation that I know the vocabulary to talk about) and my host brother only plays video games. So, I oftentimes find myself going to the park or out with friends. I feel as if my family feels like I’m leaving too much, but I can’t bear being home and being so unproductive for so long. Afterall, why would I want to sit at home and just play video games or watch Netflix… I’m in China for once in my lifetime! I need to find a better way to balance my time at home and out.  

So – on the other days, outside of my home, what did I do? I went to the countryside. I went to China National Flower Expo. I sat down and had tea with random strangers at the park and talked for an hour. I learned how to do the Chinese-equivalent of the Tango. I fed carrots to a live elephant. I rode China’s biggest rollercoaster. I hung out with friends from Switzerland, Mexico, Los Angeles, Italy, Germany, and Norway – simultaneously. Yeah, I’m definitely having some once-in-a-lifetime experiences.

Tomorrow is school. I go back for a week (and we have to go on Saturday to make-up for the long holiday). I have one last thing to say. I was recently watching a TEDTalk during my free time about learning to cope with stress, and it said that stress is not necessarily a bad thing. We must learn to adapt our mentalities to see stress as a way to motivate us, rather than hold us back. The speaker also talked about a hormone called oxytocin – the one that’s released when we have physical contact with others. This relates to empathy, happiness, and self-preservation. I feel like I’m chemically imbalanced now. I haven’t hugged anyone in a really long time, because it’s like not socially acceptable in China. So, I bought a teddy bear last week so I could hug it. Strange, probably? But, I actually think it’s really funny. My American friends better be ready tomorrow, because it’s gonna be a hug-fest at school. Gotta restore that oxytocin 😉

Until next time,

Eric

Happy, Happy Eric

23 Sep

So – I have some updates for you all (though, I apologize in advance that this may be short – I’m in a bit of a rush to finish my homework tonight and head to sleep).

Why am I so happy you must be asking?
Grandma is home! Yes, my host grandmother is spending the next two weeks at my house because my host mother is gone camping. While I don’t “dislike” my host mother, I’ll just say she’s not my favorite human being in the world. But, I love my grandmother! She speaks Chinese to me every night (I practice so much!), cooks the most delicious food, and washes/drys my clothes. She really treats me like her grandson and I love it. For example, I told her we learned about different names of melons in class today – so tomorrow shes gonna buy all of them so I can taste them! Yum yum!

Plus, she can’t speak any English, so although there are some minor language barriers… I get to study with her every night. Ahhhhh, you don’t even know how happy I am to have her right now!

Sports Meeting

So twice a year, my school hosts a Sports Meeting (basically a mini-Olympics), and it’s this upcoming weekend. I’m a bit nervous – I’m running the 1500m and the 400m sprint. Both are pretty hard, and I’m sure I’ll get pretty darn tired doing two in a row. So, hopefully I’ll be able to do alright.

“Hello Eric”

Our teacher gave us homework to visit the school dormitories and write (in Chinese) an article about them. Many students live at school because they live more than 30 minute away, and with their study schedule it puts the students at a major disadvantage. So, I went to the dorms and little did I know what I was about to get myself into… 

So, first of all the dorms aren’t like the Taj Mahal, but they’re not bad. They have western toilets (a total plus!) and desks to study and bunk beds. Six students live in each room. But, they have communal showers… yes, I said it, my biggest fear in the world communal showers. But, like I thought they would at least have curtains… but no, that’s false. So, since I was unaware of this… I walked into the showers to see what they were like… and in unison… all the boys from my class turned around and said “Hello Eric”. Literally… every… single… one… completely naked. That was the most awkward moment of my life!

I realized in China, privacy must not be the number one priority here. And, while I can definitely get over it (I’m a mature adult), it was a real shocking thing. It’s kind of awkward now…

National Holiday and the Mid-Autumn Day Festival

Next week is a whole week off of school! Whoooohooooo! I’m so excited you don’t even know. We just had a three-day weekend for the Mid-Autumn Day festival, but it’s not as it sounds. In China, studying is always first. So, basically since we had a three day weekend, we must make up the day we missed next weekend by going to school on Saturday. Same with the national holiday… we have to make-up the days! So in China, a holiday is not even really a “holiday”…

But I’m so sorry to cut todays post short, but I have to do my homework and head to sleep! I promise to post more, it’s just so freaking hard to find time… BUT I just have so much I want to talk about! Until next time, Eric!

Chinese Student Life

14 Sep

So… first off, a well-deserved apology: I’m sorry for the delay in blogging. But, I have a legitimate excuse: I literally have no time. Seriously. I’m now a Chinese student. You’ve heard all the stories of Chinese schools, right? Well they’re true.

Everyday I wake-up at 6AM, so that I can leave for school by 6:40 and be in my classroom at 7AM. Then, of course, I must do the classroom chores (as all Chinese students do) and clean the door (that’s my assigned task). We then study, study, eat, study, study, study and head home at either 6PM or 8PM. Basically, I typically head home at 6PM, because that is study hall and I prefer to do it at home… but lately I’ve been staying. I even eat dinner at school! For a really good profile of school life, check out my classmate Cassie’s blog post on our school days!

So, here’s a few stories I’d like to share in the meantime:

Chinese Costco. 

My host family decided it would be appropriate to take me to the “foreigner store” so we could buy food that I enjoy. Basically, this meant we were going to this small French chain store that was basically like a Costco, called Metro. We bought lots of assorted foods – microwaveable cake (because my brother said he learned in class that Americans love it!), a thing of Heinz ketchup, and of course a tunafish. Oh, well, it was a fun trip while it lasted.

Yum. Yum. HaoChi.

So every weekend my host grandfather meets our family for lunch or dinner. And by meets, I mean he puts some big bucks into it – like $100 American dollars for just me, my brother, my mom, my uncle, him, and my grandma. But, we always go nice places… except when they wanted to take me to a “traditional” Chinese restaurant. This will be a short section as I will not describe anything further except exactly what was served: pig feet, eel blood, pork bones to gnaw on (which we were handed leather gloves to wear because it’s the “classy” way to gnaw on fatty pork bones), chicken fingers (their actual fingers), as well as a few exciting mystery meats! 

I will say one thing though – you quickly learn ways to “eat” or make it go away the food without being disrespectful. Such as hiding the weird mystery meat at the bottom of your rice bowl or dropping it in your soup. Or, my favorite strategy for gross soups… “accidentally” spill vinegar in it so it’s too sour to drink. These strategies become very effective. Now, don’t get me wrong… I like being adventurous and trying new things… but after one try, some things you just don’t want to try again.

“I think Beeler is okay.”

My last short-story. So, my classmate yesterday came up to me and informed me that his English name is Peter, but that he was sad because he didn’t have a last name. He wanted some suggestions. I told him that he was lucky because he could choose: Smith, Cole, Paul, Cox, Morgan, Richardson, anything really… even “Obama”. He laughed, then said he had already came up with a last name. I asked him what it was and he responded “I think Beeler is okay.” I was stunned… not sure if I should be excited or a little creeped out. But, I went with the flow and congratulated him on picking (obviously) such a cool last name. The next day I went to school, I saw the students write their English name on their tests in class… about two-thirds of my classmates have now adopted the last name Beeler. So, it seems as if the Beeler legacy will live long in China.

But – one last thing – my Chinese. I think it’s improving so much. All my classmates: Cassie, Caroline, Annie, Benj, and our other foreigners (an Italian guy and a Japanese girl) are improving at a rapid pace! Yesterday, I had a 30 minute conversation with a random lady on the street (all in Chinese). When we went to Shanghai on Friday to visit the US Embassy, we dropped by the mall quickly to check out some stores and I bargained down a pair of sunglasses from 150 yuan to just 45 using Chinese. That’s an incredible price for a Chinese person, not to mention a foreigner. I can’t believe the strides I’ve made in just two weeks, and I can’t even imagine where I’ll be in a year.

Until next time, Eric.

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You can always …

30 Aug

You can always get better. Nobody can stop you from getting better, and nobody can stop you from trying to make something right. -Roseanne Barr

Just a note for all those keeping up with my blog – I get email updates of your comments, and I can’t thank you all enough for your love and support. Things were initially really tough at home with my host family, but they have gotten much better. A few days ago, I stood my ground. I explained to my host mom that I am not here to be an English teacher; that I am her son’s friend, and am happy to help, but not in the capacity of a teacher. I think she respected that. They gave me a key to the house, took me to their grandparents for dinner, and even started tutoring me in Chinese. I still help her son in English, but more like 10 minutes per day… as a friendly gesture.

So, I really think things have improved, and I am glad I had the courage to stand-up for myself. I’ve had some amazing experiences over the past few days, and I’m sure that I have 10 more months of unforgettable moments to come. I can’t wait to tell everyone more, but I’m about to head-out for dinner. 

Just know, as many posted on my blog, that – when you truly hit rock-bottom, your situation is bound to improve over time. And, my situation at home is a true testament to that. 

The Ups and Downs of Studying Abroad

26 Aug

So… I’ve had a bit of time to think over my statements from my last blog. At the moment, most of the Americans do not have phone numbers so I do not really have anyone to talk to. Alas, my blog will be my friend right now as I try to explain how I feel.

I’m not exactly happy. Let me preface that statement by saying: I love China, my teacher (Li Lao Shi) at my Chinese school is the best teacher I have ever met, Changzhou is an amazing city, and I am so happy that I decided to take a gap year. But, at the same time, my eyes are wet and I feel tired every day. I feel out-of-place at my host family’s home.

Now – I have no reason to expect the “perfect” host family. I already had that last year, and it’s like finding two needles in a hay stack. But, on the other hand, I want a family who truly treats me like someone who matters. Here, I don’t feel that way. I called my host family from Anshan today, for almost 30 minutes on the phone, and spoke ONLY Chinese… I explained how I felt: my current host family expects me to study English with my host brother for almost an hour a day. They interrupted my Chinese study so that I could pronounce English words with him. Whenever I try to speak Chinese with them, they respond in English. The problem is, I feel like more of a English teacher than a family member. 

Let me do say – I don’t mind helping him with English. But there are two prerequisites: first, they must realize that I am here to learn Chinese and to do that I must speak Chinese. Second, I need to care about them… but they treat me like a “guest” rather than family so I don’t feel a connection. For example, I was more than happy to speak to my former host brother in English. I cared about him. I wanted him to be somebody. And, in turn, my host mother/father only spoke Chinese to me all the time. That way we both benefited, and if I ever needed to practice more Chinese… my host brother would also speak Chinese with me. And they NEVER told me that I needed to teach him English every single day, like this current family is asking of me.

Additionally, I feel a bit out of place when it comes to finances. This family is definitely more well-off then my last family, but they are not generous at all. I’ve paid for so much on my own, even helping my host mom with parking her car. I don’t feel like that’s my responsibility, and I feel like they misinterpret me being American for having an extensive amount of money. Which I don’t.

To end this – let me put how I feel in context. I called my former host family, and they sent me messages on QQ (in Chinese, I translated to English) saying: “Eric, we are so sorry you are sad. You should never be sad. We love and miss you. If your current host family does not practice Chinese with you, your Anshan mama and baba will call you every day to practice Chinese. We love you. We will see you soon.” That is family. I was the most lucky boy in the world to be placed with them last summer, and I miss them so much.

Tomorrow, I will talk to my local coordinator about the problems I am having at home. I feel like she could possibly give me advice or help to solve the situation, as I’m to afraid to address it directly to my host mother. For all those who are worrying about me right now – please don’t. Everything will be okay, but I need to let things have a few days to roll-over. I will talk to my local coordinator tomorrow about my feelings, and hopefully she can help. If she can’t, I will ask for some changes to my situation. 

Sorry for blogging such negative things lately – it’s a big change to my posts before, but that’s the ups and downs of study abroad… not everything is perfect. And, it’s expected! If everything was perfect all the time, then everybody would be doing it. But, it’s the moments of sadness that make us really appreciate the special moments that we are able to enjoy. With that being said, I feel like my blog is really where I can let-out my feelings and say what I need to say here. 

So, end of negative host family post. Here’s the UPs of study abroad!

Okay, so time to switch the topic to something more funny and joyful. Let’s get some insights from an outsider about China… first off, Chinese beds. So, my bed has two mattresses (tempur-pedic to be more specific), and then a layer of wood on top of them. Where do I sleep? On the wood, of course. Yeah, that’s what a traditional Chinese bed is like. I really don’t understand… even my pillow has a bamboo covering on it. Oh well, maybe if the whole Political Science career doesn’t work out, I could work as a chiropractor in China.

Second story, my teacher. My school teacher is amazing. I have only had one class with her and I have learned so very much. I learned how to pronounce pinyin today (something I already knew), yet I still learned so much. Her class is so structured and nice, I love it. But – she’s also SUPER hilarious. Her name is Li Lao Shi. Her given (first) name actually means beautiful in Chinese. She told us – with a completely straight face – that her father gave her that name because she was such an ugly baby and he was scared that she would never find a husband. All of the students immediately started grinning. She did, too. She told us that she has a husband and a son now, so she thinks she’s pretty damn pretty. I also think she is. But, I just thought back to if my dad had named me “pretty” because he thought I was too ugly of a baby. Oh, well, I think I’ll stick with Eric.

Assorted Emotions

25 Aug

How do I feel right now? After the high of three, anticipation-filled days in New York City, followed by two days in China meeting students from all over the world – Italy, Austria, Germany, Indonesia, Thailand, Brazil, everywhere – I would think that meeting my host family would simply complete my week of bliss. But, I do not know if that’s the case.

So – I met my host family today. I have a 16-year old brother who enjoys video games and studying, a mother who speaks no English, and a father who “seldom” comes home. It’s not that they’re not nice – trust me, they are very sweet to me, but I feel a bit out-of-place. I feel like maybe their family dynamics don’t mesh too well with my personality. But, on the other hand, it may just be too soon to make conclusions such as those.

Apparently, I start school Tuesday, which is so much earlier than I could have ever thought. My teacher – Li Lao Shi – seems to be an awesome woman. And she believes that I can pass HSK5, maybe even 6, by the end of the year. She has been teaching foreign students China for nearly 3 years, so I think it’s appropriate to trust her.

But – anyway – I’m verging off-topic. I think that is the little optimist in my trying to make the best of a semi-disheartening situation. I am going to study a lot this year. I think this family will really encourage that, so it could be good for me. But, on the other hand, I don’t even know who my host father is nor when he comes home nor if he even comes home. I think my difficulty in this situation stems from my host family last year. They were so perfect, so wonderful, so kind, so amazing that maybe I have unmeetable standards and ideals for this current family. Either way, looking back at my first meeting with my Anshan family, I remember the same moments of awkwardness and an aura of hesitation… so maybe things will turn out just alright.

Honestly, I am excited for this year. I am excited for what I can make of it, but I have hesitations about how it will play-out. I think my feelings of uncertainty and difficulty are appropriate right now, but I want to give this family and my school and the city of Changzhou at least one week before I make conclusions.

So please – let me end this blog with one note: don’t take what I’m saying right now to heart. I’m a kid after his first birthday party, a mother right after her baby was born, a student waiting to get a test grade back – the experience is fresh in my mind and emotions are running through so many parts of my body that I don’t even know what to say. This blog post serves more as a way for me to vent and type away my thoughts before I take a shower and head to sleep (the water heater is taking forever to turn on!), so I can feel much more at ease tonight. 

I’ll post how I feel in a couple days, once I’ve experienced this family a bit more. Until then, I’d enjoy hearing what you guys have to say… any advice, ideas, perspectives? I know I have a very objective viewpoint on the topic, so I’d be eager to hear what others have to say. Ciao, Eric!

The Adventure Continues…

18 Aug

So, guys, I’m back. And for good reason. I’m going back to China!

Many of you may already know that I am going back to China for 11 months. This year will be a “gap year” for me through an Academic Year scholarship from the National Security Language Initiative for Youth! Wooohoo!

I will be updating this blog hopefully every week or two – keeping you in the loop on my travels, adventures, and experiences. This year I will be living in Changzhou, China attending Changzhou Senior High School of Jiangsu Providence. I will be attending classes with local students, living with a host family, and engaging in the Chinese livestyle day-and-night for 11 months!

On Tuesday, August 20th I fly to New York City for a 2-day orientation… then off to Shanghai after a brief layover in Tokyo! I wish I could tell you more (and oh do I have so much to say!), but I only have 2 days ’til I leave and so much to pack. So, I’m hoping that my next post will either come from New York or Shanghai.

Please – share my blog’s address (www.insightsfromanoutsider.wordpress.com) with anybody you know that may be interested in hearing more. Encourage them to subscribe to notifications via email – the more the merrier! Until then, enjoy these photos of the school I’ll be attending in China and feel free to look back at my archived “Adventures in Anshan” category!

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A Journey with an Unknown Destination

5 Aug

Sunday, August 5 – Anshan in Dream Lights (night)

This day is divided into two posts, because I think the events of a mere hour are enough to deserve a single post.

My brother and I walked to the center of Anshan… or what he refers to as "the symbol of Anshan." It’s a giant statue commemorating something, yet I still am clueless as to what. Though, it was beautiful. The symbol lit-up. The nearby skyscrapers flashing lights. The dark sky. The people, everywhere. Children holding kites and model planes. And, a mini-hot air balloon off in the distance. Four girls were sending it off, and it had writing on it. My brother explained it to me as a "dream balloon." Basically, you write your dreams, your wishes, your ambitions, your hopes in it and send it off. I really wanted to do one. So, he bought me one. Instantly, as usual, Chinese people flocked to see the foreigner participate in a traditional Chinese activity. I wrote my wish:

"From an American: 我要回中国 (I want to return to China)。I wish that next year goes well and I get into a good college. And, I wish for goodluck and love for my family (both American and Chinese)."

The girls nearby helped me light the balloon. And a man nearby volunteered to take pictures. It reminded me of how kind the Chinese are. They’re always thinking about others, not themselves. We lit it. And I let go. I’m actually getting teary writing this post, remembering what happened. As my balloon floated away, I realized that is going to be me in a week… flying away from China into the unknown. Next year is my senior year, I don’t know which college I’m going to, and I still have so much to discover about myself. I think China has made me realize that you can’t expect to follow a pre-determined path through life. Stray from it, and that’s when you’ll be experiencing a life truly worth living. If you would have told me, this time last year, that I would be in China the following summer… I wouldn’t have believed you. But, here I am. Making memories that I’ll one day tell my children. Learning lessons that will guide me throughout my life. And leaving the country with not one, but two, families.

There was something about that balloon, though, that made me feel like my dreams will come true. But, I also realized that I can’t just wait for them to happen. Rather, I’m going to make them happen. As I tried to explain what I am saying now, in broken English, my brother called me poetic. I don’t think I was, but I think what happened tonight exposed me to my emotions and a stark realization: I’m going to miss China. I’m going to miss my family, the Chinese people, the pictures I take, the laughing moments when I don’t understand what someone is saying, the food (even the food I don’t like), my school, my friends (both Chinese and fellow exchange students), finding proxies to access Facebook, the peace-sign when taking photos, and most of all… that feeling in my stomach when I realize how lucky I am to be who I am.

I know that, no matter where I go, China will always be a part of my life… whether I’m in the country, or the country’s in my heart.

Everyone’s a VIP

5 Aug

Just a foreword, I apologize for the shortness of this blog. I only have a week left here, and I find my days smothered by my desire to take-in every bit of China and my heapload of summer work left. Hopefully the pictures can make-up for the lack of words.

Tuesday, July 31 – What’s Your English Name?

Okay. So, sorry to ruin the daily summary, but I have to be honest here: today was an average day. Not bad, every day here is amazing, but just like in American, we all have "average" days. There were no spectacular, exciting, or reminiscent events today. But, I’ll explain the title of today here.

Chinese names are hard to pronounce. And they don’t give you one word… they give you three. Their family name (always first), their first name, and their middle name. So, we have adopted a practice of giving Chinese people English names so we can remember them. They like the names, too. It makes them feel ‘cool’ and included. There’s a guy who’s been visiting our class. He speaks little English and sits in the back of the room. We spoke to him today and decided he needs a name. So, we named him Jacob. That name was determined after a twenty minute discussion of a fitting name for him. Yes, giving Chinese people English names takes time and a lot of debate.

After, we went to the gym and played another game of volleyball. I don’t know how to describe our volleyball games that we’ve been playing basically every day after lunch. Uhm, we have a lot of spirit. Like, a lot a lot. Because the other team is actually good at volleyball, so we have to do something. Therefore, we scream, yell, cheer, chant, and highfive eachother after every point. It may seem ridiculous, but it’s our way of having fun. Oh, and today we asked the Chinese volleyball team to play against us. We could only play for around 10 minutes, and then we had to go to class, but let’s just say we lost. Big time.

Oh, and one last thing. Chinese people keep

Wednesday, August 1 – I Still Have a Lot of American Homework

Yeah. My title fits today (and the rest of my trip) perfectly. I have so much summer work left to do. Tip to students who are going abroad: DO YOUR WORK BEFORE YOU LEAVE. And when I say do your work before you leave, I mean do all of it. Don’t be like me and do 1/4, because then you still have 3/4 of the work left to do abroad. And if you think it’s hard to stay motivated in America, it’s even worse in China. Seriously.

So, today in class we wrote a speech. Yes, a speech. It was about the closing ceremony and it was almost 70 characters or so. Which may not sound like a lot, but that’s a huge step considering I came here knowing no Chinese. And yes, I wrote it in my notebook. Oh, and guess what. I’m the host of our closing ceremonies next week, so I get to recite the speech in front of like 100 people… in Chinese. But, my host mom and I are going to practice it every single night next week. She wants me to have it perfectly – and so do I.

The shirt story, commence. We were playing volleyball, as usual. And Lauren ran over and slapped my stomach. Now she ment it totally as a joke, but darn is she strong. I fell to the ground… I mean, I’m okay… not hurt… but she knows how to pack a punch. She apologized a million times and I told her it was totally fine. My friends were in a joking mood and I was joking, so I asked them to drag me back to my side of the volleyball court. Bad move. You aren’t even supposed to sit on the floor in China. They’re too dirty. Too dirty, too dirty, too dirty. My shirt was covered in dust, dirt, and it was gross. So, I took it off and washed it in the sink. Another bad move. I was shirtless and my only shirt was soaken wet. I borrowed Caroline’s jacket and went to my teacher to ask her if she had a shirt I could borrow. She stared at me blankly, trying to decipher why I was without a shirt. But, she smiled and took me to her office. She said she didn’t have any, but I could use one of her colleagues. Now, as much as I appreciate the gesture… she just took it. Like, she went into his locker and took his fancy polo shirt and gave it to me. But, I was shirtless and our bus was set on course to the museum. So, I didn’t question it. I took it, wore it (even though it was way to big and looked quite hideous on me), washed it, forget it at my house, and eventually returned it two days later.

Yeah, we went to the museum. Well, two actually. But, they weren’t too remarkable. They were nice, but I don’t know what to exactly say. They described Anshan’s history, the history of steel and jade in China, and opra. Cool, I guess. I don’t think I’m much of a museum person to be honest. But, they were fun and that’s where we spent the latter of our afternoon. Oh, but there was one really awkward occurrence. I spent around 10 minutes playing with some clay fruit in the corner, everybody else was still in the previous exhibit. Well, our tour guide walks in (I was looking at a different thing at the time) and explained to our class that these fruit were extremely sacred and were made to pay respect to the dead. Opps, awkward much. At least nobody saw me touch them.

Thursday, August 2 – The Common App Scare

Okay. This day basically revolves around one, single thing: the common app was released. It was actually released yesterday, but I didn’t have access to a computer, so I didn’t know. We had a regular day until the afternoon. We had class, ate a mediocre lunch, played volleyball, and returned for a unique culture class. We were taught plate carving by an 78-year old man. I designed the plate… with a creative saying: 你好。(Hello.). Everybody left after an hour an herded to the computer lab, but I stayed with our teacher, Jayne, and Wendy to finish my plate. I later finished it and gave it to my family as a gift… they hung it up in the living room… it’s really sweet.

But, after the carving, I went to the computer lab. Everybody was freaking-out, writing their applications. I freaked-out for a little while, too. I signed up for the application. It took several times, because it kept telling me I was 12 and not old enough to apply to college… which is not true. And I also signed up for several scholarship application accounts. Woot woot. But, then it hit me. I need to focus on China, and summer reading. And I need to quit worrying about college because it’s only gonna stress me during the end of my trip. So, I have officially delayed any thoughts about college until I return on August 14th.

That night was spent with Caroline. My family and Caroline’s family went out to a local restaurant. A really fancy, and delicious one, that is. I posted several pictures. Oh, and before I continue… in China, the basement (on elevators) are labeled -1. As in the negative first floor. I had never seen it before, but Caroline says its actually common in the United States. What’s your take on it? Have you ever heard of that before? After dinner, we had a short conversation with a group of Chinese people. Then we were herded by our family’s to the car. We drove the KTV. And let’s just say it was a party. I have learned at KTV that to make up for my horrid singing, I have to put on a show. So, I do. I dance, I jump, I make-up lyrics, I make it funny. I think I’m a remarkably good KTVer. But, that’s not something I can describe… guess you’ll just have to join me someday to find out!

Friday, August 3 – Rain, Rain, Go Away… It’ll Come Again Another Day (AKA Tomorrow)

So, to explain the title of this post: a monsoon hit China today. If you don’t know what a monsoon is; it’s a hurricane. But, in the Pacific, they call them monsoons. But, don’t fret. It didn’t hit my city, rather we got a huge surge of rain for several days because of it. And I’m talking big rain. Like scary, massive rain. And it’s extremely unpredictable rain… like one moment it is completely sunny outside, then the next moment its raining ford cars.

After lunch today we went to the local kindergarden. Oh my goodness, do I love Chinese children. As much as I want my own kids, I’m almost dead-set on adopting a Chinese child when I am older. After visiting the orphanage, I saw how many are in need of a home. But, on top of that, I just think Chinese children are adorable. In every possible way. We taught the kids how to play games, they sung songs to us, and we danced to some songs. I was expecting the kindergarden to be super orderly and everything (and it did have uniforms and such), but it was almost the same as an American kindergarden. Although, in some respects, they were better behaved and they did clean-up fast… kids are kids. So, they pretty much did their thing, running around and screaming and playing. And although some people don’t like it, well I love kids. So I just joined in… and I ran around, screamed, and played. I mean, I’m only gonna be at a Chinese kindergarden once, right?

Saturday, August 4 – Shopping Spree

Well I was going to go fishing with my father today, but due to the rain… we postponed our trip. Instead, he said I’m going to call in "sick" one day next week during school and we’re gonna go fishing instead. He said just to blame it on my mother’s cooking. Haha. So, I changed my plans. And all the Americans met at New Mart to go shopping at 10:00. I was a tad bit late due to taxi circumstances. Let me explain this. When I get in taxis, the driver obviously knows that I’m not from Anshan… because I’m white and I can’t speak Chinese. So, they (most of the time) tend to take major detours to raise the rate. But, after living here for six weeks, I know when they do this. I don’t know what to do, though. I can’t say anything because I don’t know how to say that in Chinese, plus, it’s only like 3 yuan extra (or 50 cents) so I just get over it.

This taxi driver was especially unique, though. He was smoking… not one, not two, but three cigarettes. At the same time. I mean is one cigarette not enough for you? And to make matters more awkward, he was listening to Adele. Since I wanted to practice my Chinese, I said that I knew and liked this song. So, he turned the volume up to 76. Basically blowing my ears out. But, it was only a 7 minute ride… so even though it felt long, it eventually ended. I paid the driver, and saw my fellow English-speakers. I decided to go shopping with my usual friends: Sarah and Lauren. Oh, and our Chinese friend (Hannah, English name) came with us. Here’s a culture tip: corn is an extremely common street food here. Don’t be shocked if you see cobs of corn on the ground, stores dedicated to selling corn, or people walking next to you eating a cob of corn on a stick. It was different at first, but hey, I like corn too. So I understand the craze.

We had an extreme shopping spree. I shopped more than I ever had in my entire life… and I spent a total of 500 yuan. Note, that’s under $80. And I bought several pairs of clothes (all designer), gifts, stationary items, and so much more. I don’t understand how, but I just want to say that I love this 1 to 6 conversation rate. Today, also, I did my good deed of the month. I helped an old lady cross a puddle (and by puddle, I mean monsoon puddle that’s almost three feet deep). There was one stepping stone across it and she couldn’t reach it. So, I stepped in the water, drenched my shoes, my pants, and helped her across. She took me aside, grabbed my hand and thanked me for a solid two minutes. Athough I was soaken wet, I warm inside… I did something good today. And yes, it was the cliche "help the old lady" good, but it was still a good deed.

Next topic. The Russians. There’s a lot of them in Anshan, because we’re so close to Russia. They’re rude. In the words of Lauren, "They’re not friendly… well, not like we are." When you try to talk to them, they just look at you and turn away. Oh, well. I have Chinese people to talk to anyways. Let’s move on to dinner. I had Mi Xian. And I dont know how to describe how scary that meal was. Have you ever burnt your tongue with hot or boiling water? Minus the pain, you remember the tingly and numb sensation you felt? Well, that’s what I had (but over my entire mouth) when I ate Mi Xian. I was freaking out, and I thought I was having an allergic reaction. I didn’t want to tell my family, though, because I was afraid they wouldn’t understand and would take me to the ER or something. And although it was bad, it stopped when I drank water or quit eating the food for a few minutes. Well, after the dinner, I called Sarah to tell her what had happened. She explained to me that it’s supposed to be like that… people eat Mi Xian for that specific sensation. In fact, it’s one of her favorite foods. As I questioned her sanity, because I thought it was horrendous and frightening (sorry, Sarah, I still love you!) I vowed that I would never eat Mi Xian again. But, if you ever get a chance… try it once, just to see what I’m talking about. Words can’t really describe it, but a meal can.

Sunday, August 5 – Just Another Day in the Park (day)

Okay. I’m officially being cheap in China. Like really cheap, and I don’t understand why. For example, I am walking about 20 minutes or so before I take the taxi just to save on taxi costs. But, I don’t understand why I do it because I typically only save 1 or 2 yuan. Which is less than 15 or 20 american cents. Ehhh, so what. I’m getting good exercise. Today, I went to 219 park with Marissa (and later, Cassie and her family). We met at roughly 11:30 and we spent about an hour at the Chinese amusement park. Basically, it’s the same as an American amusement park, but sketchier. For example, the few rides that passed the "Safety Inspection Certification" test displayed the sign in their window… but I seriously was concerned as to why passing a safety exam is considered an accomplishment, least a requirement.

We saw the giant ferris wheel. And we wanted to go. But, it was 30 yuan per person. So, being China, I offered 40 yuan for both of us. They said that there is no bargaining allowed her. Well, being the Americans we are, we walked away. Two minutes later, I turned around to a tap on the shoulder of the attendant saying she would give us a ride for my price. Booya! Bargaining skills! I posted a few pictures from the ferris wheel. It was mighty sketchy, and I am proud to say I survived the ride, woot!

Oh, one other thing. Lately, I’ve been speaking BRIEF Chinese to people. Like telling them goodmorning, or I don’t want this item. Then saying something else and walking away. They stand there, flabbergasted. And I walk away quickly before they can talk to me in Chinese, because I most likely won’t know what they’re saying. It’s funny because they assume that I speak fluent Chinese… which is like basically one in a million among foreigners. So, I laugh at my trickery as I walk away. Let’s talk about pictures with Chinese people… because no matter where I am that always seems to pop-up. When you let one Chinese person take a picture with you, and others see, you better be ready for a solid 20 minutes of picture taking. Because they flock to you. They see the first picture as the icebreaker… then families hand you their children, their teenage daughter, their dog, their grandfather… tell you to smile… and click-click-flash. I held a baby, took a picture, then realized the baby wasn’t wearing underwear or anything for that matter (take note, though, that this is a common practice in China and is not abnormal). But, as they were walking away… and I came to that realization after I saw well, baby parts… I lathered my arms with hand sanitizer. Ewh. Ewh. Ewh. There’s some things in China that I just won’t get used to.

I saw an English speaker. And not a Russian. Yes! He was Australian and he worked here in Anshan… he was also married to a Chinese woman who spoke fluent English… with an Australian accent! So cool. That’s about it for that occasion, though. I was much more excited than Cassie and Marrisa, and I probably spoke to him for a solid 10 minutes. It was just good to speak English to somebody other than my classmates for once. Oh, how I’m going to appreciate America. Last park story… Chinese Eharmony. Basically there’s a place in the park where you hang a bio of yourself, a description of your looks, and your phone number looking for love. It’s so cute. You just write it out on paper or on the computer and hang it up with bobbypins on a tree or clothesline. There’s probably hundreds of them. I attached pictures of them, but I just think it’s adorable and I wish we had that in America. In the "love area" (I guess we can call it that.) I was once again surrounded by a herd of Chinese ladies. But this time… I UNDERSTOOD THEM. I talked to them. I had a conversation. Of course there were times when I didn’t understand, but I managed to speak… and I was so proud of myself. I have made such an improvement in Chinese and this experience definitely showed it.

To the title of this post (real quickly): in China, everybody is VIP… of something, at least. Every store, restaurant, or chain of any kind has a VIP card. It basically give you half-off the price and makes you feel "special." But, you’re not. Everybody else has a card, too. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. But, conclusion of this statement… if you have VIP card, you’re cool in China.

Lastly… today was my brother’s birthday. So we went to the theatre and watched Ice Age 4. It was funny because I explained to him that in America it was only for children… yet when we walked in the theatre, there was nobody under the age of 10. It was all teenagers and adults. I guess Chinese people really like American cartoons? I don’t know. It was also all in Chinese, so I didn’t understand it… but I think I got the jist of the movie… and I could understand bits and pieces of it. Plus, it was funny how everything was translated except: the opening part, the songs in the movie (just had subtitles), and the end credits. But, I guess they didn’t wanna rerecord the whole song in Chinese… but it was just an unprecedented, awkward transition from Chinese to English. But, I was probably the only person who could understand the song in the theatre. Because although some people speak English, music is typically too fast for even my brother, who is good at English, to catch on to. After, I took him out to dinner… my treat. And bought him a cupcake. Happy birthday didi!

Well, it’s 1AM right now and I am incredibly tired. I have many more stories, but I am just out of time. I only have a week left (I can’t believe it). But, I will see you all soon! Until then, 你们有很好夏天。见你们在一个周。晚安。

Kodak Moments

30 Jul

As I said, I have many pictures. So here’s an additional post filled with as many pictures as I can possibly send in. These are scattered over my entire trip, so think of them as more of an array of memories.
Here’s some of the topics for the pictures: Beijing, cooking dumplings, pictures with random Chinese people, Kong Fu, Korean BBQ, the Supermarket (超时), KTV, Bing You Gou (冰于句), and bungee jumping. Oh, and don’t forget hampsters being sold on the street for 2 yuan, or roughly 40 cents.